Monday, August 25, 2008

your choice: greed or grateful

Karena perbincangan saya dan teman tentang mantannya kemarin, tiba-tiba jadi keinget tulisan Dewi Lestari, mantan istrinya Marcel, “Setiap hubungan pasti ada masa kadaluarsanya”, katanya.

Dear God, that is so low..!

Awal baca blog-nya, saya sempat naik pitam sedikit. Setelah dipikir lagi, malah otomatis jadi ketawa. Not a happy laugh, a pity one, actually.

Here’s what I think:

Kenapa suatu relationship bisa bubar? Kenapa orang pacaran putus? Atau yang nikah malah jadi cerai? Saya cuma punya satu jawaban:

“Because human gets greedy”

Manusia biasanya lupa dengan apa yang sudah dia miliki. Yang ada di kepalanya malah apa yang belum dia punya. Kalau saja dia merasa cukup, otomatis apa yang dia punya akan dia jaga dengan baik. That is called grateful.

Jadi, gak ada tuh yang namanya expired dalam suatu hubungan.

Think about it…

5 comments:

Anonymous said...

Wah...setoedjoe nieh! Tapie djangan loepa batasan 'greedy' sama 'iengein lbh madjoe' toeh ahak2 tiepies ja.
Kadang hoeboengan djoeha bs beratjhier krn pasangan soedah merasa tjoekoep & tieada maoe memperbaiekie dierie ataoe tieada maoe dieadjak madjoe (djalan!).

-aris- said...

ieja..akoe sangatlah mengertie ma'soedmoe. Memang wadjar kalaoe manoesiea poenja keiengienan oentoek madjoe (tak gentar).

Tjoba detjh.. seseorang iengien madjoe, tapie kenapa biesa kemoediean (setieawan) djadie peotoes ataoe tjeraie dengan pasangannja? Moengkien sahadja pasangannja tiada biesa meneriema keiengienan diea oentoek madjoe?? Itoe kan sama sahadja dengan greed. Krn hanja memiekierkan dierienja sahadja.

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