Thursday, September 11, 2008

to compete or not to compete

Tadi malam Amazing Race Asia 3 premiere di AXN. Kali ini tidak ada peserta dari Indonesia. Well, so what??

Ada peserta dari suatu negara mana saya belum hafal. Mereka berdua kakak beradik, yang laki namanya Henry, yang perempuan Bernie. Dengan tegas pada saat interview perkenalan, mereka bilang kalau mereka adalah orang-orang kompetetif, mereka ikut Amazing Race Asia hanya untuk menang dan bukan untuk cari teman.

Well, it got me thinking…

Actually, there’s nothing wrong with that. I mean, datang untuk menang memang seharusnya. Tidak mau make friends juga adalah hak mereka. Yang agak ganggu adalah sifat mereka yang kompetetif itu.

Bagi saya sifat itu terlalu agresif, sangat kurang humble dan dipenuhi oleh aura nafsu yang jadinya lebih ke arah negatif alias mengahalalkan segala cara. Biasanya kalau gagal, mereka jadinya frustasi. Kebanyakan ini dimiliki oleh orang-orang kholeris. Well, I’m mostly choleris, but so what??

I used to be a competitive person, and it’s freaking tiring! Always compete, in anything! Walaupun lagi tidak dalam rangka pertandingan or whatsoever. Otomatis rasa persaingan itu selalu ada.

Well, probably the world still needs those kinds of people…

Sangat berbeda dengan pemenang Amazing Race Asia tahun lalu, saya lupa nama mereka. Mereka banyak dijagokan karena struggle so hard, punya self drive tinggi namun tidak agresif dan sangat humble.

These kinds of people are supposed to be the ones who rule the world!

** o ya, this is my 100th post by the way..

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